{"id":12237,"date":"2021-02-06T16:19:57","date_gmt":"2021-02-06T16:19:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lediemchihue.com\/?p=12237"},"modified":"2021-02-06T16:20:22","modified_gmt":"2021-02-06T16:20:22","slug":"nguyen-phong-la-thu-tu-ben-kia-the-gioi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lediemchihue.com\/?p=12237","title":{"rendered":"Nguy\u00ean Phong – L\u00e1 Th\u01b0 T\u1eeb B\u00ean Kia Th\u1ebf Gi\u1edbi"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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B\u00e1c s\u0129 Elizabeth K\u00fcbler-Ross, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ti\u1ec1n phong trong l\u00e3nh v\u1ef1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u1ec1 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng h\u1ed3i sinh cho bi\u1ebft:
\n\u201cCon ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ee3 ch\u1ebft nh\u01b0 con n\u00edt s\u1ee3 ma, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 nh\u00ecn c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i, gh\u00ea t\u1edfm v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn n\u00f3 v\u00ec n\u00f3 l\u00e0m gi\u00e1n \u0111o\u1ea1n s\u1ef1 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 ch\u1ebft m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u00ecnh th\u1ea3n, gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb th\u00ec h\u1ecd s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y ch\u1ebft l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 l\u00fac sinh ra v\u1eady. B\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 l\u00fac n\u00e0o chung quanh ch\u00fang ta, s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 ch\u1ebft c\u0169ng lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n ti\u1ebfp di\u1ec5n. L\u00e1 c\u00e2y r\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ed7 cho nh\u1eefng m\u1ea7m non xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n, h\u1ebft m\u00f9a \u0111\u00f4ng l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 m\u00f9a xu\u00e2n. M\u1ed9t hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng l\u1ebd l\u1ea1i ch\u1eb3ng bao h\u00e0m m\u1ed9t \u00fd ngh\u0129a th\u00e2m s\u00e2u n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3? Ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng ch\u00ednh v\u00ec c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ch\u1ebft m\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu, c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng th\u00ec c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 h\u1ee7y di\u1ec7t, \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f3 g\u00ec t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i v\u0129nh vi\u1ec5n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00fd ngh\u0129a \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 ch\u1ebft, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u1eb7n k\u1ebd c\u00e1c s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n n\u00e0y ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft m\u01a1 h\u1ed3 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sau \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00edch l\u1ea1i t\u1eeb cu\u1ed1n La Revue Spirite:
\nB\u00e1c s\u0129 Henri Desrives l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t khoa h\u1ecdc gia ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng, vui v\u1ebb v\u00e0 y\u00eau ngh\u1ec1. Nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi nh\u00e0 tr\u00ed th\u1ee9c kh\u00e1c, \u00f4ng s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi r\u1ea5t th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bu\u1ed3n l\u01b0u \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc ch\u01b0a gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. \u00d4ng kh\u00f4ng tin r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t linh h\u1ed3n t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i sau khi ch\u1ebft v\u00ec th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t h\u1eefu c\u01a1 v\u00e0 tr\u00ed th\u00f4ng minh ch\u1eb3ng qua ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c t\u1ebf b\u00e0o th\u1ea7n kinh. Khi th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 h\u01b0 ho\u1ea1i th\u00ec tr\u00ed th\u00f4ng minh c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. M\u1ed9t h\u00f4m khi b\u00e0n chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi c\u00e1c con v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng sau khi ch\u1ebft, \u00f4ng h\u1ee9a s\u1ebd li\u00ean l\u1ea1c v\u1edbi c\u00e1c con n\u1ebfu qu\u1ea3 th\u1eadt c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng b\u00ean kia c\u1eeda t\u1eed.
\nC\u1eadu con trai Piere Desrives, c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t y s\u0129, \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i: \u201cN\u1ebfu \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ebft, l\u00e0m sao cha c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 li\u00ean l\u1ea1c v\u1edbi con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c?\u201d
\nB\u00e1c s\u0129 Henri suy ngh\u0129 m\u1ed9t l\u00fac r\u1ed3i tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi: \u201cCha kh\u00f4ng tin c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng hay c\u00f5i gi\u1edbi n\u00e0o ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu sau khi ch\u1ebft m\u00e0 cha th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec th\u00ec cha s\u1ebd t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ecdi c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 li\u00ean l\u1ea1c v\u1edbi c\u00e1c con.\u201d
\nV\u00e0i n\u0103m sau, b\u00e1c s\u0129 Desrives t\u1eeb tr\u1ea7n, c\u00e1c con \u00f4ng v\u00ec b\u1eadn vi\u1ec7c n\u00ean c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd g\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn bu\u1ed5i b\u00e0n lu\u1eadn \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa.
\nKho\u1ea3ng hai n\u0103m sau, m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c trong b\u1ec7nh vi\u1ec7n l\u1eadp b\u00e0n c\u1ea7u c\u01a1 ch\u01a1i, b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd c\u01a1 b\u00fat \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft: \u201cXin cho g\u1ecdi b\u00e1c s\u0129 Piere Desrives \u0111\u1ebfn v\u00ec t\u00f4i l\u00e0 cha c\u1eadu \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1ea5y l\u1eddi mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eafn nh\u1ee7 v\u1edbi c\u00e1c con t\u00f4i.\u201d
\n\u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f4ng b\u00e1o, b\u00e1c s\u0129 Piere kh\u00f4ng tin t\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1ea5y nh\u01b0ng nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i l\u1eddi d\u1eb7n c\u1ee7a cha, \u00f4ng b\u00e8n g\u1ecdi c\u00e1c em \u0111\u1ebfn tham d\u1ef1 bu\u1ed5i c\u1ea7u c\u01a1 n\u00e0y. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7m gi\u1eef \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t s\u1ee3i d\u00e2y, \u0111\u1ea7u kia c\u1ed9t v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t c\u00e2y b\u00fat ch\u00ec v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t l\u00e1t sau c\u00e2y b\u00fat \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng ch\u1ea1y tr\u00ean c\u00e1c trang gi\u1ea5y th\u00e0nh b\u1ee9c th\u01b0 nh\u01b0 sau:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1c con th\u00e2n m\u1ebfn,
\nCha r\u1ea5t h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eb7p \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1eb7t c\u00e1c con n\u01a1i \u0111\u00e2y. G\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t n\u0103m nay, cha c\u00f3 \u00fd tr\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ec3 k\u1ec3 cho c\u00e1c con v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u1edf c\u00f5i b\u00ean n\u00e0y m\u00e0 cha \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i n\u00f3i l\u1ea1i cho c\u00e1c con bi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c con \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft, h\u00f4m \u0111\u00f3 sau khi \u1edf b\u1ec7nh vi\u1ec7n v\u1ec1, cha th\u1ea5y trong ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi l\u1ea1 th\u01b0\u1eddng, cha b\u00e8n l\u00ean gi\u01b0\u1eddng n\u1eb1m v\u00e0 d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n l\u1ecbm \u0111i lu\u00f4n, kh\u00f4ng hay bi\u1ebft g\u00ec n\u1eefa. M\u1ed9t l\u00fac sau cha th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh \u0111ang l\u01a1 l\u1eedng trong m\u1ed9t b\u1ea7u \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng trong su\u1ed1t nh\u01b0 th\u1ee7y tinh. Th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea3 r\u00f5 c\u1ea3m t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a cha khi \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u sao cha th\u1ea5y trong m\u00ecnh d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu, linh ho\u1ea1t, tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb g\u00f2 b\u00f3, r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc. C\u00e1c con bi\u1ebft cha b\u1ecb phong th\u1ea5p n\u00ean \u0111i \u0111\u1ee9ng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, v\u1eady m\u00e0 l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 cha th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i \u0111\u1ee9ng, bay nh\u1ea3y nh\u01b0 h\u1ed3i trai tr\u00e1ng. Cha c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u01a1 tay gi\u01a1 ch\u00e2n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, kh\u00f4ng \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn g\u00ec. \u0110ang v\u1eaby v\u00f9ng trong bi\u1ec3n \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec b\u1ea5t ch\u1ee3t cha nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a cha \u0111ang n\u1eb1m b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9ng tr\u00ean gi\u01b0\u1eddng. Cha th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 c\u00e1c con \u0111ang qu\u00e2y qu\u1ea7n chung quanh \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 ph\u00eda tr\u00ean th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a cha c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh th\u1ec3 l\u1edd m\u1edd tr\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t l\u00f9m m\u00e2y m\u00e0u x\u00e1m \u0111ang l\u01a1 l\u1eedng. C\u1ea3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111ang x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u sao cha c\u1ee9 th\u1ea5y trong m\u00ecnh bu\u1ed3n b\u1ef1c, kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu. Cha l\u00ean ti\u1ebfng g\u1ecdi nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ai tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi, cha b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1eafm l\u1ea5y tay m\u1eb9 con nh\u01b0ng m\u1eb9 con kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 hay bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean cha \u00fd th\u1ee9c r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ebft. Cha b\u1ecb x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u1ea1nh, nh\u01b0ng may thay l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 m\u1eb9 con v\u00e0 c\u00e1c con \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00ean ti\u1ebfng c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n, t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean cha th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh h\u1eb3n l\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c an \u1ee7i. C\u00e1i c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eafm ch\u00ecm trong nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y th\u1eadt v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ea3 xi\u1ebft. L\u1edbp \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng bao quanh cha t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean tr\u1edf n\u00ean s\u00e1ng ch\u00f3i v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a cha t\u1eeb l\u00fac th\u01a1 \u1ea5u \u0111\u1ebfn khi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh b\u1ed7ng hi\u1ec7n ra r\u00f5 r\u1ec7t nh\u01b0 tr\u00ean m\u00e0n \u1ea3nh. T\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c g\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c xa, ngay c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng chi ti\u1ebft nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t nh\u1ea5t c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u hi\u1ec7n ra r\u00f5 r\u1ec7t trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a cha. H\u01a1n bao gi\u1edd h\u1ebft, cha \u00fd th\u1ee9c t\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1eadn c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, c\u00e1c \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh, h\u1eefu \u00edch m\u00e0 cha \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea5u xa, v\u00f4 \u00edch m\u00e0 cha kh\u00f4ng tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. T\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean cha th\u1ea5y sung s\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u1ec7n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m v\u00e0 h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng l\u1ebd ra cha kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m. C\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n phim \u0111\u1eddi hi\u1ec7n ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u00f5 r\u1ec7t cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi cha th\u1ea5y m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfp \u0111i nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi bu\u1ed3n ng\u1ee7.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cha \u1edf trong t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng v\u1eadt v\u1edd, n\u1eeda ng\u1ee7 n\u1eeda th\u1ee9c n\u00e0y m\u1ed9t l\u00fac kh\u00e1 l\u00e2u cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi t\u1ec9nh d\u1eady th\u00ec th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh v\u1eabn l\u01a1 l\u1eedng trong m\u1ed9t b\u1ea7u \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng c\u00f3 m\u00e0u s\u1eafc r\u1ea5t l\u1ea1 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u00e0u \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng l\u1ea7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc. Cha th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 di chuy\u1ec3n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nhanh ch\u00f3ng, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n x\u00e1c th\u00e2n n\u1eefa. Cha th\u1ea5y c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang di chuy\u1ec3n g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1ea7n h\u1ecd th\u00ec cha l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu l\u00e0m sao. M\u1ed9t l\u00fac sau cha \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ee5 h\u1ecdp. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u00f3 rung \u0111\u1ed9ng d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu n\u00ean cha c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u01b0\u1edbc l\u1ea1i h\u1ecfi th\u0103m h\u1ecd m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho bi\u1ebft t\u00f9y theo c\u00e1c rung \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00edch h\u1ee3p m\u00e0 cha c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf c\u00f5i b\u00ean n\u00e0y. S\u1edf d\u0129 cha kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 rung \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi \u201ct\u1ea7n s\u1ed1 rung \u0111\u1ed9ng\u201d (frequency) c\u1ee7a cha. S\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch khoa h\u1ecdc n\u00e0y l\u00e0m cha t\u1ea1m h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ecd cho bi\u1ebft th\u00eam r\u1eb1ng \u1edf c\u00f5i b\u00ean n\u00e0y t\u1ea7n s\u1ed1 rung \u0111\u1ed9ng r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng, v\u00e0 t\u00f9y theo n\u00f3 m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta s\u1ebd l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn n\u01a1i ch\u1ed1n m\u00e0 h\u1ecd s\u1ed1ng. C\u0169ng nh\u01b0 lo\u00e0i c\u00e1 \u1edf ngo\u00e0i bi\u1ec3n, c\u00f3 lo\u00e0i s\u1ed1ng g\u1ea7n m\u1eb7t n\u01b0\u1edbc, c\u00f3 lo\u00e0i s\u1ed1ng \u1edf l\u01b0ng ch\u1eebng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 lo\u00e0i s\u1ed1ng d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e1y s\u00e2u t\u00f9y theo s\u1ee9c \u00e9p c\u1ee7a n\u01b0\u1edbc th\u00ec \u1edf c\u00f5i b\u00ean n\u00e0y, t\u00f9y theo t\u1ea7n s\u1ed1 rung \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c c\u1ea3nh gi\u1edbi kh\u00e1c nhau. S\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n n\u00e0y l\u00e0m cha c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng th\u00edch th\u00fa v\u00ec nh\u01b0 v\u1eady qu\u1ea3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00f5i gi\u1edbi b\u00ean kia c\u1eeda t\u1eed v\u00e0 c\u00f5i n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u1ea3nh gi\u1edbi kh\u00e1c nhau n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi x\u01b0a cha kh\u00f4ng tin nh\u1eefng quan ni\u1ec7m nh\u01b0 thi\u00ean \u0111\u00e0ng hay \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c nh\u01b0ng hi\u1ec7n nay cha th\u1ea5y quan ni\u1ec7m n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch khoa h\u1ecdc qua vi\u1ec7c c\u00e1c t\u1ea7n s\u1ed1 rung \u0111\u1ed9ng. Nh\u1eefng t\u1ea7n s\u1ed1 rung \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? T\u1ea1i sao cha l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng t\u1ea7n s\u1ed1 rung \u0111\u1ed9ng h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi? Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ecd gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch r\u1eb1ng t\u00f9y theo t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 rung \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00e1c nhau; ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng cao c\u1ea3 kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ednh t\u00ecnh nh\u1ecf m\u1ecdn, \u00edch k\u1ef7 hay nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi hung \u00e1c, kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 bi\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u1ea1 l\u00f9ng m\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc nay cha kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn. Cha b\u00e8n \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng tr\u00ed th\u1ee9c, ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng nh\u1eefng khoa h\u1ecdc gia nh\u01b0 cha c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng t\u1ea7n s\u1ed1 rung \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ecd tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi r\u1eb1ng, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng tr\u00ed th\u1ee9c ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb n\u00e0o \u1edf c\u00f5i b\u00ean n\u00e0y c\u1ea3. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0m cho cha \u00edt nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ecd cho bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1i ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n m\u00e0 cha t\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e0 to t\u00e1t ch\u1eb3ng qua ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng m\u1ea3nh v\u1ee5n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t kho t\u00e0ng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn m\u00e0 b\u00ean n\u00e0y ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ecd nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh r\u1eb1ng, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u00f3. S\u1eed d\u1ee5ng n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 hay ti\u00eau di\u1ec7t nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i? S\u1eed d\u1ee5ng n\u00f3 v\u00e0o m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch v\u1ecb tha hay \u00edch k\u1ef7? S\u1eed d\u1ee5ng n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i ni\u1ec1m vui hay \u0111\u1ec3 g\u00e2y \u0111au kh\u1ed5 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c? Th\u1ea5y cha c\u00f3 v\u1ebb th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y b\u00e8n \u0111\u01b0a cha \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t th\u01b0 vi\u1ec7n l\u1edbn, t\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e2y c\u00f3 l\u01b0u tr\u1eef h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch m\u00e0 cha c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tham c\u1ee9u, h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi. Ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd cha l\u1ea1i x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch r\u1ea5t c\u1ed5 vi\u1ebft t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i x\u01b0a v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch ghi nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1edbi nay cha ch\u01b0a h\u1ec1 nghe n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn. Sau m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u, cha th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh v\u1eabn h\u00e3nh di\u1ec7n th\u1eadt ra ch\u1eb3ng \u0111\u00e1ng k\u1ec3 g\u00ec so v\u1edbi kho t\u00e0ng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c n\u01a1i \u0111\u00e2y. \u0110\u1ebfn khi \u0111\u00f3 cha m\u1edbi th\u1ea5m th\u00eda \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng tr\u00ed th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 t\u1ea7n s\u1ed1 rung \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u01a1i cha \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u0111a s\u1ed1 v\u1eabn gi\u1eef nguy\u00ean t\u00ednh n\u1ebft c\u0169 nh\u01b0 khi c\u00f2n s\u1ed1ng \u1edf th\u1ebf gian. C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec1n t\u1eeb vui v\u1ebb, c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tinh ngh\u1ecbch \u01b0a ch\u1ecdc ph\u00e1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec1m \u0111\u1ea1m, c\u00f3 k\u1ebb l\u1ea1i n\u00f3ng n\u1ea3y. Quang c\u1ea3nh n\u01a1i \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e1c c\u00f5i tr\u1ea7n bao nhi\u00eau; c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng dinh th\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3 s\u1ed9, to l\u1edbn; c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng v\u01b0\u1eddn hoa m\u1ef9 l\u1ec7 v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee7 c\u00e1c lo\u1ea1i hoa nhi\u1ec1u m\u00e0u s\u1eafc; c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u1ecdn n\u00fai r\u1ea5t cao hay s\u00f4ng h\u1ed3 r\u1ea5t r\u1ed9ng. L\u00fac \u0111\u1ea7u cha ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean khi th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3nh v\u1eadt n\u00e0y d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n thay \u0111\u1ed5i, nh\u01b0ng v\u1ec1 sau cha m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u00f3 hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu l\u00e0 do s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng t\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e2y. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u1edf c\u00f5i tr\u1ea7n. C\u00e1c con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ra nh\u00e0 c\u1eeda dinh th\u1ef1 trong \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f3c m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng \u1edf c\u00f5i tr\u1ea7n s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t y\u1ebfu, ch\u1ec9 hi\u1ec7n l\u00ean trong tr\u00ed \u00f3c m\u1ed9t l\u00fac m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. B\u00ean n\u00e0y v\u00ec c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng rung \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 rung \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e0m gia t\u0103ng th\u00eam s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh khi\u1ebfn cho nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c v\u00e0 l\u00e2u b\u1ec1n h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1c con \u0111\u1eebng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ean n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 su\u1ed1t ng\u00e0y rong ch\u01a1i, t\u1ea1o ra c\u00e1c h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh theo \u00fd mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd; m\u00e0 th\u1eadt ra t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n theo \u0111u\u1ed5i c\u00e1c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c ri\u00eang \u0111\u1ec3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho s\u1ef1 t\u00e1i sinh. V\u00ec m\u1ecdi t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng b\u00ean n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1ea1o ra c\u00e1c h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh n\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng r\u1ea5t th\u00edch h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t, \u00fd th\u1ee9c r\u00f5 r\u1ec7t h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u00ec \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng b\u00ean n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n \u0103n u\u1ed1ng, l\u00e0m l\u1ee5ng n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gi\u1edd theo \u0111u\u1ed5i nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c hay s\u1edf th\u00edch ri\u00eang. C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1ea1y h\u1ecdc, c\u00f3 k\u1ebb theo \u0111u\u1ed5i c\u00e1c ngh\u00e0nh chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n nh\u01b0 h\u1ed9i h\u1ecda, \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c, ki\u1ebfn tr\u00fac, v\u0103n ch\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u01a1 ph\u00fa, v.v\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi, trau d\u1ed3i c\u00e1c kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng mai sau. Ph\u1ea7n cha \u0111ang h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi trong m\u1ed9t ph\u00f2ng th\u00ed nghi\u1ec7m khoa h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 sau n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u00edch cho nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i. C\u00e0ng h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi, cha c\u00e0ng th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c khi x\u01b0a c\u1ee7a cha kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u00e1ng k\u1ec3 v\u00e0 n\u1ec1n y khoa m\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n nay c\u00e1c con \u0111ang theo \u0111u\u1ed5i th\u1eadt ra kh\u00f4ng l\u1ea5y g\u00ec l\u00e0m t\u00e2n ti\u1ebfn l\u1eafm n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng r\u1ea5t \u1ea5u tr\u0129 so v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u cha \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft n\u01a1i \u0111\u00e2y. Hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean khoa h\u1ecdc ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00f9y theo kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng tr\u00ed th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, m\u1ed7i th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n hay ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 kh\u00e1c nhau n\u00ean nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u0169ng v\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb m\u00e0 th\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00e0 khu\u00f4n v\u00e0ng th\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u1ecdc th\u00ec \u0111\u1eddi sau l\u1ea1i b\u1ecb coi l\u00e0 c\u1ed5 h\u1ee7, l\u1ed7i th\u1eddi; v\u00e0 nh\u01b0 cha \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft th\u00ec nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 ng\u00e0y nay \u0111ang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eddi coi tr\u1ecdng, \u00edt l\u00e2u n\u1eefa c\u0169ng s\u1ebd b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e0o th\u1ea3i. Tuy nhi\u00ean c\u00e1i t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng, c\u00e1i \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng ph\u1ee5ng s\u1ef1 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, m\u1ecdi sinh v\u1eadt th\u00ec b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i n\u00e0o c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi l\u00e0 c\u0103n b\u1ea3n quan tr\u1ecdng m\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft. C\u00e0ng h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi cha c\u00e0ng th\u1ea5y ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi th\u1eddi gian m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00ec m\u1edbi \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 ch\u00e2n l\u00fd. Cha mong c\u00e1c con h\u00e3y suy ng\u1eabm v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y, xem \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch tr\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ed3n, b\u1ea5t bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng theo \u0111\u00f3, thay v\u00ec theo \u0111u\u1ed5i nh\u0169ng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch t\u1ea1m b\u1ee3, h\u1eddi h\u1ee3t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cha bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi \u00fd ngh\u0129, t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng rung \u0111\u1ed9ng ri\u00eang v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u01b0u tr\u1eef l\u1ea1i trong ta nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u1ed5. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean khi s\u1ed1ng \u1edf c\u00f5i tr\u1ea7n, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u00e1 b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n v\u1edbi sinh k\u1ebf, nh\u1eefng \u01b0u phi\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a ki\u1ebfp nh\u00e2n sinh, kh\u00f4ng \u00fd th\u1ee9c g\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn n\u00f3 n\u00ean n\u00f3 kh\u00e9p k\u00edn l\u1ea1i; nh\u01b0ng khi b\u01b0\u1edbc qua c\u00f5i b\u00ean n\u00e0y th\u00ec n\u00f3 t\u1eeb t\u1eeb m\u1edf ra nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng trang gi\u1ea5y ph\u00f4 b\u00e0y r\u00f5 r\u1ec7t tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft. Nh\u1edd v\u1eady m\u00e0 cha bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 r\u1eb1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac hay kh\u1ed5 \u0111au c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u do ch\u00ednh ta t\u1ea1o ra v\u00e0 l\u01b0u tr\u1eef trong m\u00ecnh. Cu\u1ed1n s\u1ed5 l\u01b0u tr\u1eef n\u00e0y l\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00e3 qua v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh n\u00f3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t t\u1ea7n s\u1ed1 rung \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. T\u00f9y theo s\u1ef1 rung \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u00e0 m\u1ed7i c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n th\u00edch h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3nh gi\u1edbi ri\u00eang v\u00e0 s\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng t\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f3 khi b\u01b0\u1edbc qua c\u00f5i gi\u1edbi b\u00ean n\u00e0y. Do \u0111\u00f3, mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i \u1edf c\u00f5i b\u00ean n\u00e0y, c\u00e1c con ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb. Cha mong c\u00e1c con h\u00e3y b\u1eaft tay v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y ngay. C\u00e1c con h\u00e3y r\u00e1n l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0nh, t\u1eeb b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi b\u1ea5t thi\u1ec7n. Khi l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec, c\u00e1c con h\u00e3y suy g\u1eabm xem h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, li\u1ec7u n\u00f3 c\u00f3 g\u00e2y \u0111au kh\u1ed5 hay t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng cho ai kh\u00f4ng? \u0110\u1eebng qu\u00e1 b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n suy t\u00ednh nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u01a1n l\u1ebd thi\u1ec7t m\u00e0 h\u00e3y t\u1eadp qu\u00ean m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t ng\u1eafn, c\u00e1c con kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi c\u00f2n s\u1ed1ng, \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 l\u00fac cha d\u1ea1y c\u00e1c con ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 d\u00e0nh ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ee5c ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m, nh\u1eefng b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9ng s\u1ea3n, nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee9ng kho\u00e1n\u2026 nh\u01b0ng b\u00e2y gi\u1edd cha bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea7m. M\u1ed9t khi qua \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y, c\u00e1c con kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 mang nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00f3 theo \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Danh v\u1ecdng, \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb, t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch t\u1ea1m b\u1ee3, b\u00e8o b\u1ecdt, \u0111\u1ebfn hay \u0111i nh\u01b0 m\u00e2y tr\u00f4i, gi\u00f3 th\u1ed5i, tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f3 sau kh\u00f4ng. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1edbi l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh trang duy nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 c\u00e1c con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang theo m\u00ecnh qua c\u00f5i gi\u1edbi b\u00ean n\u00e0y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 h\u01b0 hao m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t. T\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e1 nam ch\u00e2m, n\u00f3 thu h\u00fat nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd ti\u1ebfn l\u1ea1i g\u1ea7n nhau, k\u1ebf h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi nhau. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00e3nh l\u1ef1c b\u1ea5t di\u1ec7t, m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, tr\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ed3n v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh nh\u1edd l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00e0y m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm g\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i nhau tr\u1ea3i qua kh\u00f4ng gian hay th\u1eddi gian. Ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n c\u00e1c con ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha nghi\u00eam ngh\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea7y uy quy\u1ec1n khi tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ec1m y\u1ebfu ch\u0103ng? N\u00e0y c\u00e1c con, ch\u1ec9 khi n\u00e0o bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i tay b\u01b0\u1edbc qua th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi b\u00ean n\u00e0y, c\u00e1c con m\u1edbi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea1ng hu\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, t\u1ed1t hay x\u1ea5u, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac hay \u0111au kh\u1ed5, th\u00edch h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi c\u1ea3nh gi\u1edbi thanh cao t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh hay nh\u1eefng n\u01a1i ch\u1ed1n th\u1ea5p th\u1ecfi x\u1ea5u xa. H\u01a1n bao gi\u1edd h\u1ebft, cha x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u cha h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi n\u01a1i \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ecbnh lu\u1eadt khoa h\u1ecdc th\u1eadt \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n m\u00e0 c\u0169ng th\u1eadt huy\u1ec1n di\u1ec7u. N\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u00e1i nguy\u00ean l\u00fd tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a h\u1eb1ng hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu trong v\u0169 tr\u1ee5. S\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng trong c\u1ea3nh gi\u1edbi m\u1ef9 l\u1ec7 \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebd hay t\u0103m t\u1ed1i u minh \u0111\u1ec1u do nh\u1eefng t\u1ea7n s\u1ed1 rung \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 ra c\u1ea3 v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh hay l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn nh\u1eefng n\u01a1i m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi c\u00f2n s\u1ed1ng cha tin r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ebft l\u00e0 h\u1ebft, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 c\u1ea5u t\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c ch\u1ea5t h\u1eefu c\u01a1 h\u1ee3p l\u1ea1i, nh\u01b0ng hi\u1ec7n nay cha bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea7m. Cha kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t ph\u1ea7n x\u00e1c th\u00e2n v\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n t\u00e2m linh. S\u1ef1 ch\u1ebft ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi ph\u1ea7n th\u00e2n x\u00e1c trong khi ph\u1ea7n t\u00e2m linh v\u1eabn ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng. N\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf t\u1eeb thu\u1edf n\u00e0o r\u1ed3i v\u00e0 s\u1ebd c\u00f2n ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c m\u00e3i m\u00e3i. Hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a cha kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb h\u1ee7y ho\u1ea1i kia m\u00e0 l\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n t\u00e2m linh v\u1eabn ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y, do \u0111\u00f3 cha m\u1edbi c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng li\u00ean l\u1ea1c v\u1edbi c\u00e1c con \u0111\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n t\u1ea5t \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 cha \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ee9a v\u1edbi c\u00e1c con khi x\u01b0a. Cha nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t d\u00f2ng n\u01b0\u1edbc tu\u00f4n ch\u1ea3y kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng t\u1eeb n\u01a1i n\u00e0y qua n\u01a1i kh\u00e1c, t\u1eeb h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c n\u00e0y qua h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c kh\u00e1c. Khi tr\u00f4i ch\u1ea3y qua nh\u1eefng m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00e1c nhau n\u00f3 s\u1ebd b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c nhau; v\u00e0 t\u00f9y theo s\u1ef1 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi, kinh nghi\u1ec7m m\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t thi\u00eang li\u00eang th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. C\u0169ng nh\u01b0 s\u00f3ng bi\u1ec3n c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee3t cao, \u0111\u1ee3t th\u1ea5p th\u00ec \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac th\u0103ng tr\u1ea7m, khi vinh quang t\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec9nh, l\u00fac kh\u1ed1n c\u00f9ng t\u1ee7i nh\u1ee5c, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu bi\u1ebft nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i to\u00e0n v\u1eb9n ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng th\u00ec ki\u1ebfp ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 kh\u00e1c chi nh\u1eefng l\u00e0n s\u00f3ng nh\u1ea5p nh\u00f4, l\u0103ng x\u0103ng tr\u00ean m\u1eb7t bi\u1ec3n \u0111\u00e2u. Ch\u1ec9 khi n\u00e0o bi\u1ebft nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 s\u00f3ng th\u00ec c\u00e1c con s\u1ebd \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1eedu c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 c\u00e1c con s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t quan ni\u1ec7m r\u00f5 r\u1ec7t r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ebft ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t di\u1ec5n ti\u1ebfn t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch giai \u0111o\u1ea1n ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec gh\u00ea g\u1edbm nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i. \u0110i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 tr\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh s\u1ef1 ch\u1ebft hay gh\u00ea t\u1edfm n\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, ung dung v\u00ec n\u1ebfu khi c\u00f2n s\u1ed1ng c\u00e1c con \u0111\u00e3 \u0111em h\u1ebft kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1eddi, \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ecdi lo\u00e0i th\u00ec l\u00fac l\u00e2m chung, c\u00e1c con ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec ph\u1ea3i luy\u1ebfn ti\u1ebfc hay h\u1ed5 th\u1eb9n v\u1edbi l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m c\u1ea3. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi t\u1eeb bi\u1ec7t c\u00e1c con, cha mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i th\u00eam r\u1eb1ng hi\u1ec7n nay cha \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, vui v\u1ebb v\u00e0 an l\u1ea1c ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 kh\u1ed5 s\u1edf.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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